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Deborah L. Hall's avatar

Thank you. This is what I was looking/asking for. I had seen the term used as a pejorative in novels I read as a young person. I was thinking that maybe because the Spade suite in a deck of cards is black? I'm not always sure how to ask the right questions to get what I'm looking for. Thanks for your intuitiveness.

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