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Jun 16Edited

"What is the point of play? What is the goal? To develop a fully realized inner life, one driven by imagination? To learn the proper way to socialize with strangers, to make friends? To cultivate empathy for those around us? All of the above? The big question for the tablet generation, then, is this: Does absorption within screens wind up short-circuiting some—perhaps all?—of these efforts?"

The answer here is, "Yes."

I don't want to seem like more of a luddite than I am, but I've come to appreciate the advantage of having kids develop on a human centric scale (both in terms of time and space). As an Xer (so, please stop calling me a Boomer, that's my parents!), I had the good fortune of bridging between the old and new. I'm far more resistant to the pull of the algorithm(s) than my kid, who--despite my best efforts--is rapidly being co-opted by it.

This tech is great and has great potential, but if we're not asking "What is the point? What is the goal?" constantly, then we will surely be turning ourselves over willingly to the matrix.

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Thoughtful review Sonny! I was 18 when the first one came out, and at the time it struck all the feels as I realized I was leaving childhood behind, along with some beloved toys and all the imaginary adventures I’d had, for a grown up world with real responsibility. I think the whole series (maybe 2 to a lesser extent) is also about dealing with the unstoppable forces of change and how not completely losing the joys and magic of childhood is critical for a healthy adult life.

I’ve got a 5th grader who is days away from finishing up elementary school. He asked for a gaming headset for “graduation” gift. But I’ve been catching him playing with his beat up broken toy lightsaber so he’s getting a new one. It’s probably the last time I can get away with a toy as a gift and have him be happy about it. Whether he or I or his mom like it, he’s entering a tweenage digital world.

But I know if he can hang onto a few of those moments of play from his childhood, there will be something deeply human in his memories of growing up. Until he’s maybe got his own kids. Playing with him and his toys was one of the joys of him being little and me being a parent.

I’m glad Disney & Pixar return to that old well every so often to tackle the place of toys and play in life. But the digital world is already changing even that. His mom and I are going to a theater to see 5, he’s going to a birthday party instead and thinks that Toy Story is for little kids and he’ll just stream it on Disney+. For now though, we still have theaters and he still gets a beloved toy as a gift one last time.

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