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The Hamline story is just so...aggravating. If you can't have a complex discussion in a college setting over something that might upset you, then what's the f*cking point of college in the first place? It's supposed to expose you to ideas that threaten your identity and make you rethink your worldview. It's meant to be bold and brash and even ultimately a little bit disconcerting. And this coddling of the youths, which is happening across the age spectrum but it's just most nakedly apparent here, is just so utterly destructive to societal and cultural health

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The offended student reminded me of a story I read this morning in The Atlantic (https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2023/01/transgender-children-gender-expression-identity-school-teachers/672669/) regarding the ethics of defying parental wishes regarding kids' gender expression. The examples given were preschoolers playing dress-up. The parents sounded ridiculous, but the catering to 4 year olds, who do a LOT of imaginative play, was troubling. If a boy wants to dress up in princess clothes, who cares? It seems to me the parents and the schools are assigning way too much weight to kids who, as preschoolers, are just doing what preschoolers do, and imagining themselves to be princesses, or cowboys, or dragons, or dinosaurs. Adolescents are also known for putting on and taking off all kinds of identities--kids go from jock to goth to whatever else will drive their parents nuts.

In both stories, what jumped out to me is how much adults defer to kids, who JVL quite sensibly points out are KIDS. They are learning. They are doing kid things. Sometimes what a kid needs to hear from a college administrator is "get out of here kid, you're bothering me." Or the classic: "Fat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life, son." No way would a dean dare to say that to a student, and a lot of them need to hear it.

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