That’s a great point. Most men will either expect sex as part of a committed relationship or - if he’s a religious conservative - will expect you to marry him after six months so that he can have Godly sex with you. Thus for most women, having pre-marital sex or marrying after six months are the only realistic relationship options. Put a…
That’s a great point. Most men will either expect sex as part of a committed relationship or - if he’s a religious conservative - will expect you to marry him after six months so that he can have Godly sex with you. Thus for most women, having pre-marital sex or marrying after six months are the only realistic relationship options. Put another way, the only way the “keep your legs closed” thing can realistically work is if you’re a religious conservative in a relationship with a religious conservative and there’s a mutual agreement that there’ll be no sex until you’re married. So what “keep your legs closed” is truly saying, in effect, is that *you need to be a religious conservative* who only gets involved with other religious conservatives, and if you’re not then you deserve to suffer for that choice because you’re a sinning slut.
That’s a great point. Most men will either expect sex as part of a committed relationship or - if he’s a religious conservative - will expect you to marry him after six months so that he can have Godly sex with you. Thus for most women, having pre-marital sex or marrying after six months are the only realistic relationship options. Put another way, the only way the “keep your legs closed” thing can realistically work is if you’re a religious conservative in a relationship with a religious conservative and there’s a mutual agreement that there’ll be no sex until you’re married. So what “keep your legs closed” is truly saying, in effect, is that *you need to be a religious conservative* who only gets involved with other religious conservatives, and if you’re not then you deserve to suffer for that choice because you’re a sinning slut.