How to Be Grateful Despite Trump
Counting our blessings has never been more vital.
HOW IS EVERYBODY COPING with the decline of America? Iāll tell you how Iām doing in a bit. But first I have a few observations about Thanksgiving.
I wish I had a dime for every time Iāve heard someone declare that Thanksgiving is their favorite holiday. I used to say it myself, before I realized that itās so commonplace. What makes it so special?
Thereās the indulging, of course. Humans have been celebrating big eventsāweddings, religious holidays, birthsāwith feasts for more than 10,000 years. Preparing and consuming a festive meal satisfies eternal human needs. Itās not just the food itself. Eating is the most quotidian of activities. What separates Thanksgiving is the joint effort, the sense of tradition, the memories of childhood that the food evokes.
Then again, July Fourth and Easter feature iconic foods and childhood memories, too. So does Halloween. And yet all of these trail Thanksgiving in popularity.
As a Jew, Iāve never celebrated Christmas. It looks pretty great from the outside. Trees and gingerbread and carols and spiked eggnog. But I gather from Christian friends that it ranks below Thanksgiving because of the stress of buying presents, decorating, and sibling rivalries (even among adults) about who gets what. I like Hanukkah fine, though it has expanded beyond its remit to fill a void for Jews in the Christian world.
The most important thing about Thanksgiving, though, is the thankfulness. This, I think, may account for the holidayās chart-topping status. Psychologists affirm that gratitude is good for oneās mental health. The Mayo Clinic reports that, āExpressing gratitude is associated with a host of mental and physical benefits. Studies have shown that feeling thankful can improve sleep, mood and immunity. Gratitude can decrease depression, anxiety, difficulties with chronic pain and risk of disease.ā
Itās good for your spiritual health as well. Expressing gratitude out loudāto God or to fortuneāhas a way of knitting a family together and helping buffer the serrated edges of life. Everyone, without exception, can find something for which to be thankful. Remember the Helen Keller admonition, āI cried because I had no shoes until I met a man who had no feet.ā
Which brings us to this year. I personally have not been felled by a dire diagnosis, a bankruptcy, or the untimely death of a loved one. Those are great reasons to be grateful right there. On the other hand, the country has crossed a dangerous threshold with the reelection of Donald Trump and it would be foolish to wave it away. We were already exhausted by eight years of outrages, moral cowardice by those we thought had character, and the steady decline of decency. And now, we must prepare for at least four more years of the same or possibly worse. How can a patriotic American be grateful when the country has elevated this villain to the presidency again?
Here are a few things on my list.
The election was close. Trump just missed getting a majority of the popular vote. Half the country voted against him and among those are tens of millions of Americans who feel as we do about what has happened to the GOP. Kamala Harris got nearly 75 million votes. We are not shouting into the void. We have plenty of company and just a few vicissitudes of fate can bring defeat to MAGA. History suggests strongly that the first reverses will arrive in 2026 (particularly if Democrats learn the right lessons from 2024, but thatās a subject for another day).
Civil society remains robust in America. Just as in Tocquevilleās day, our tendency to form committees and associations to accomplish things is in our national DNA. Expect existing groups and new ones yet unborn to organize to preserve and strengthen the rule of law, fight against corruption and for free speech.
Every election victory, no matter how narrow, invites arrogance. After Bidenās success, some were describing him as the next FDR. With Trump, whose self-regard was already stratospheric, expect that error to be compounded a thousand fold. They will make mistakes. Elon Musk will profit from his notional DOGE post, which will infuriate Trump, who hates to see anyone get a payoff other than himself.
Trump ran on promises he cannot possibly fulfill. He swore to reduce prices and raise tariffs. He doesnāt have the foggiest notion how to reduce prices, and raising tariffs will only increase them. He also promised that high tariffs will pay down the debt, subsidize the costs of housing and childcare, and be paid by foreigners. He said heāll stop taxing tips and social security benefits, but will not touch entitlements. Oh, and the tariffs could simply replace income taxes altogether. Um, no.
He promised to deport 11 million illegal immigrants and to use the military to accomplish this. This would be extremely difficult even for experienced executives accustomed to tough assignments. But this crowd? Leaving aside the moral argument, if Trumpās raiders were able to round up and deport millions of people, a number of industriesāagriculture, construction, hospitality, and othersāwould be devastated, leading once again to the kind of inflation that so soured voters on Biden.
The tide will turn, and in the meantime those of us who hate illiberalism in all its guises need to refresh our minds and bodies this holiday to prepare for whatever may come. Happy Thanksgiving.
