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I've stood on the sidelines of the Israel/Hamas/Palestine issue for a while now, listening to the various arguments and trying to find my place in it as an outsider with no direct proverbial dog in the hunt. What I increasingly find distasteful is the push to take sides among the victims and the topics involved, one way or the other, that with too many people there is little to no middle ground in which one can have sympathy for all of those who suffer unnecessarily rather than one group, at the expense of the other.

Some central truths in my eyes: 1) terrorism is wrong, period, full stop, and warrants consequences for the actions. 2) Rape is wrong and unacceptable in all cases, no matter who does it and why, period, full stop. 3) Innocent people should not become acceptable collateral damage in the process, in word or in deed, period, full stop. Call me overly naive if you like, but why can we not start with that premise and understand/accept that the further we honeycomb the issues and divide them down into little pots of misery and personal anguish, the more we lose sight of the bigger picture?

Consider this passage from David Leonhardt in today's "The Morning" (New York Times):

"When Abdullah Abu Nada, a chemist who was at work in Gaza City, heard that the building where his family was staying had been hit by an airstrike, he texted his wife, Samah. She didn’t reply, and Abu Nada then called his 15-year-old son, Ahmed. When his son didn’t answer, Abu Nada called his 16-year-old daughter, Nawal. She didn’t answer, either. All three of them — as well as the two other Abu Nada children: Anas, 12, and Mohammed, 8 — had been killed in the airstrike. A different airstrike killed 68 members of the extended Joudeh family. Khaled Joudeh, 9, and his brother Tamer, 7, lost their mother, father, older brother and baby sister. Mohammad Abu Hasira, a Palestinian journalist, was killed in a separate attack, as were 42 members of his family. Justin Amash, a former Republican congressman, said that several of his family members were killed while sheltering in a church in Gaza. And Ahmed al-Naouq, a graduate student living in London, lost his father, five of his siblings, and 13 nieces and nephews."

I read this, and see other evidence of abject human suffering by people who did not ask for it, and rather than point fingers, I look at myself. Each of these people killed was a lot like me in a fundamental way. Each one had hopes, dreams, and aspirations. Each one, babies and toddlers tragically excepted, had a childhood and learned or was learning to grow and evolve. Each one lived and loved. Each one who lived long enough went shopping, rooted for sports teams, had friends, hobbies and interests, and otherwise found fulfillment in daily life. I think about what if it had been me. Then I multiply by 15,000. And my brain hurts and my soul aches. Why can we not start from that premise as we assess the horrific damage and try to see all of these people who are not terrorists, insurgents, or ideologues foremost as human beings who do not warrant this suffering -- neither Jew nor Palestinian -- and whose plight we should strive diligently to mitigate as we can, rather than argue about merely opinions, from college kids or people otherwise who ultimately do not have to live (or die) directly with the results and can go home tonight to safe shelter and warm, nourishing meals?

Set me straight as you like. Until then I will grieve for all innocent lives damaged and destroyed, for they are human beings, as am I, and my brain and my soul are becoming overloaded as long as I continue to possess a thing called empathy somewhere within them both.

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Tom Nichols recently wrote a piece in The Atlantic, castigating liberals for having wasted the power of the term “fascist” by applying it too early, to Trump. I disagree. I think a lot of us saw that reality before pundits like Nichols allowed himself to see it. They were wearing blinders of normality, pretending it couldn’t possibly be that bad. It was that bad, even in the very beginning. Warnings were ignored because of a dangerous devotion to “normal!”.

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