Agreed. It’s an ongoing conundrum that we face over and over in varying intensities. “Silence is complicity”, versus giving them the attention they crave by challenging them. I usually think of the perfect response the next day, after examining the situation every which way.
I admired the way an old friend responded to a racist joke ye…
Agreed. It’s an ongoing conundrum that we face over and over in varying intensities. “Silence is complicity”, versus giving them the attention they crave by challenging them. I usually think of the perfect response the next day, after examining the situation every which way.
I admired the way an old friend responded to a racist joke years ago; “I don’t think it’s true, and I don’t think it’s funny”. Simple. Succinct. Unfortunately, I don’t think fast on my feet.
You need to read Kahneman's Thinking Fast and Slow. Thinking fast is a habit, but habits are all to often ingrained biases. Develop good thinking habits, slowly, and your quick responses may -- that's may -- be appropriate. In my experience, far too many people with quick retorts are full of nonsense.
Agreed. It’s an ongoing conundrum that we face over and over in varying intensities. “Silence is complicity”, versus giving them the attention they crave by challenging them. I usually think of the perfect response the next day, after examining the situation every which way.
I admired the way an old friend responded to a racist joke years ago; “I don’t think it’s true, and I don’t think it’s funny”. Simple. Succinct. Unfortunately, I don’t think fast on my feet.
You need to read Kahneman's Thinking Fast and Slow. Thinking fast is a habit, but habits are all to often ingrained biases. Develop good thinking habits, slowly, and your quick responses may -- that's may -- be appropriate. In my experience, far too many people with quick retorts are full of nonsense.