Before I left Twitter, I tangled with a few "If a woman don't want to get pregnant she should keep her legs shut" philosphers.
I asked them "if a woman wants to have a male partner in her life, can she keep her legs shut?" Any men under 50 care to comment on how long you stay in a relationship with no sex?
Before I left Twitter, I tangled with a few "If a woman don't want to get pregnant she should keep her legs shut" philosphers.
I asked them "if a woman wants to have a male partner in her life, can she keep her legs shut?" Any men under 50 care to comment on how long you stay in a relationship with no sex?
That’s a great point. Most men will either expect sex as part of a committed relationship or - if he’s a religious conservative - will expect you to marry him after six months so that he can have Godly sex with you. Thus for most women, having pre-marital sex or marrying after six months are the only realistic relationship options. Put another way, the only way the “keep your legs closed” thing can realistically work is if you’re a religious conservative in a relationship with a religious conservative and there’s a mutual agreement that there’ll be no sex until you’re married. So what “keep your legs closed” is truly saying, in effect, is that *you need to be a religious conservative* who only gets involved with other religious conservatives, and if you’re not then you deserve to suffer for that choice because you’re a sinning slut.
So, when I got busted down from corporal and was made to share my final barracks room with a young boot who I hated a lot, I decided to make it a pet project of mine to try to bang the girl he was trying to get with at the time. We did end up hooking up, but she ended up being one of those hyper-Christian "waiting for marriage before sex" types. Yea, that lasted about one night and I never replied to her texts again (and she sent manyyyy).
I'm not even sure why I chose an age, other than to express I am aware that there are likely some older men who would be ok with no sex in their relationship/
Society as a whole loves to give out dick moves on the basis of indifference in pursuit of pleasure-chasing, I might as well have gotten her used to it at an early age. I certainly had to get used to it young on my end. Things haven't changed much since 2007. If anything, the degree of societal indifference in pursuit of pleasure-chasing has gotten worse with time.
Before I left Twitter, I tangled with a few "If a woman don't want to get pregnant she should keep her legs shut" philosphers.
I asked them "if a woman wants to have a male partner in her life, can she keep her legs shut?" Any men under 50 care to comment on how long you stay in a relationship with no sex?
That’s a great point. Most men will either expect sex as part of a committed relationship or - if he’s a religious conservative - will expect you to marry him after six months so that he can have Godly sex with you. Thus for most women, having pre-marital sex or marrying after six months are the only realistic relationship options. Put another way, the only way the “keep your legs closed” thing can realistically work is if you’re a religious conservative in a relationship with a religious conservative and there’s a mutual agreement that there’ll be no sex until you’re married. So what “keep your legs closed” is truly saying, in effect, is that *you need to be a religious conservative* who only gets involved with other religious conservatives, and if you’re not then you deserve to suffer for that choice because you’re a sinning slut.
So, when I got busted down from corporal and was made to share my final barracks room with a young boot who I hated a lot, I decided to make it a pet project of mine to try to bang the girl he was trying to get with at the time. We did end up hooking up, but she ended up being one of those hyper-Christian "waiting for marriage before sex" types. Yea, that lasted about one night and I never replied to her texts again (and she sent manyyyy).
There's one data point. I could stay longer than one night, but I'm over 50, so I can't be in the study.
I apologize for the exclusion :)
I'm not even sure why I chose an age, other than to express I am aware that there are likely some older men who would be ok with no sex in their relationship/
I understand the point you are trying to make, but hooking up with someone to annoy your roommate is a d*** move, fortunately for her d***less.
Society as a whole loves to give out dick moves on the basis of indifference in pursuit of pleasure-chasing, I might as well have gotten her used to it at an early age. I certainly had to get used to it young on my end. Things haven't changed much since 2007. If anything, the degree of societal indifference in pursuit of pleasure-chasing has gotten worse with time.
Grin