Another key is to maintain a lack of belligerence, which is hard when the other side is overly endowed. That’s what has made this forum such a pleasure. Unfortunately it’s so rare.
Another key is to maintain a lack of belligerence, which is hard when the other side is overly endowed. That’s what has made this forum such a pleasure. Unfortunately it’s so rare.
Yes. I've seen ample cases where coming on too strong turns people off and becomes counterproductive. The key is to listen as much as you talk and to have a civil, give-and-take discussion, and to not fly off the handle if someone sees the details differently. I've gotten flexibility out of people by simply stating, "You make a fair point. But I've also found that ...". The truth usually wins out in the end if people are willing to hear it.
I used to meet with customers daily (often with total strangers).Observe and listen.What are their likes and dislikes.Treat them as best friends. Then you can talk.
I try to see it as an opportunity for personal growth, to avoid responding in kind. I’m not sure how I’d rate myself so far. I live remotely and don’t have many contacts with MAGAs in order to practice. I did have one, a couple years ago that evolved into actual friendship for a while, but it turned out there were hidden mental health issues, stemming from childhood abuse, and it ended badly. So, not a representative sample!
Another key is to maintain a lack of belligerence, which is hard when the other side is overly endowed. That’s what has made this forum such a pleasure. Unfortunately it’s so rare.
Yes. I've seen ample cases where coming on too strong turns people off and becomes counterproductive. The key is to listen as much as you talk and to have a civil, give-and-take discussion, and to not fly off the handle if someone sees the details differently. I've gotten flexibility out of people by simply stating, "You make a fair point. But I've also found that ...". The truth usually wins out in the end if people are willing to hear it.
I used to meet with customers daily (often with total strangers).Observe and listen.What are their likes and dislikes.Treat them as best friends. Then you can talk.
I try to see it as an opportunity for personal growth, to avoid responding in kind. I’m not sure how I’d rate myself so far. I live remotely and don’t have many contacts with MAGAs in order to practice. I did have one, a couple years ago that evolved into actual friendship for a while, but it turned out there were hidden mental health issues, stemming from childhood abuse, and it ended badly. So, not a representative sample!