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Deutschmeister's avatar

Who was that old, face-painted man that was hollering at me on TV last night? I felt … violated to a considerable extent, berated by someone for something that I didn’t do and made to feel like whatever is wrong with our country and this world, it always was and is someone else’s fault. I got the distinct impression that at any moment he was about to tell me to get the hell out of his taxpayer-funded yard and play ball somewhere else.

Ronald Reagan that guy ain’t. I’d settle for Gerald Ford. There are public speakers who know how to read the room, that gentle, reassuring tones and a visible sense of empathy are the way to bring people over to your side and create a sense of both community and inspired leadership. Then there are those like the current guy who seem to feel that bludgeoning you via a verbal dressing down is the way to move forward, a sort of “get out of my way” approach that makes you feel less like you’re on the team and more as if an obstacle to him realizing the vision that he has for himself and his agenda. The difference between the two is as stark as the degree to which our nation has changed direction, in relatively short time, and not for better, as more and more of our uncouth leaders assert their authority and perceived superiority (see: Hegseth, Pete).

One vision and vibe is democratic and inclusive. The other is autocratic and exclusive, telegraphing that there is a hierarchy of importance at play and you are not one of the Beautiful People. I’d say welcome back to high school, with its cliques and class structures, but this is so much more serious than that. Enjoy the bumpy ride, if you can. We collectively bought the ticket. We continue to pay the price.

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Ashley's avatar

I do appreciate the president screaming for 18 minutes that EVERYTHING IS FINE! EVERYTHING IS GREAT! Why in the world would you think otherwise as you just got back from holiday shopping and felt your soul leave your body when you saw the total. Guess we can have gifts or groceries but not both.

And I wasn’t even buying dolls or pencils!

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