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Sue Havlish's avatar

So much to be thankful for… And so much to keep fighting against! One thing that motivated me was hearing from so many of my friends at holiday gatherings how their new insurance rates have priced them out of coverage for 2026, and though I am grateful that I’m on Medicare, I realize how much work there is to be done to make sure everybody has reliable, affordable health insurance. And that’s just one of the long, long of disasters this administration has wrought. Happy new year to you and the entire Bulwark family! Onward!

Shantha Smith's avatar

I am inspired by my other daughter's laughter. Last weekend I got married to the man I was meant to find in midlife. We both have children from our previous marriages. In addition to English, we both were raised speaking Tamil; in Tamil the word for niece is other daughter. I told her that's what she was to me since I could never replace the mother she lost as a young child and I wanted to welcome her more closely than step daughter implies. She smiled the sweet smile of a scared 22 year old unsure of her place. We spent the whole week together with friends and wellwishers and family members weaving in and out of an elaborate dance to knit two families together, enjoying Hindu story discussions, Hannukah Rock Shabbat at Temple Emanu-El, a peaceful visit to the Taung Pulu Kaba Aye Buddhist Monastary, a chicken biryani cooking lesson from our Muslim house guest, and unexpected gifts under the tree on Christmas morning. My new husband calls me a universalist. My new other daughter doesn't know what to call me yet. But yesterday she laughed out loud with me to my jokes, movie jokes, and her first joke to me. That precious laughter from a young person who has seen difficult and depressing times will carry me for months into the future. We are past the longest night of the year. Here comes the sun.

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